The world is spinning faster than ever, and with it, so many of us are being thrown around by the chaos. People are hurting. Marriages are crumbling. Anxiety, addiction, and depression are swallowing lives whole. We all need something to hold onto—some kind of hope, some kind of faith—just to get through tomorrow.
And whether you realize it or not, you already have faith in something.
An alcoholic hopes there’s one last drink left in the bottle. A porn addict hopes that this time will be "the last time." A man drowning in financial ruin hopes that just one more gamble will turn everything around. A broken wife hopes her husband will finally change without confronting the real issue. An atheist places hope in the belief that there is no God. Someone confused about their identity hopes that chasing affirmation will finally bring them peace.
But misplaced hope will always leave you empty.
We chase the quick fix—the next high, the next relationship, the next distraction—trying to numb the pain rather than deal with the wound. We surround ourselves with people who tell us what we want to hear, not what we need to hear. Misery loves company, and before we know it, we’re drowning, convincing ourselves that this is just the way life is.
But what if there was a different way?
What if there was something—someone—who could give you a hope that doesn’t just temporarily numb the pain but actually heals it? A hope that brings peace, purpose, and transformation?
There is—and His name is Jesus.
When we put our hope in Christ, we aren’t clinging to some empty philosophy or self-help strategy. We are plugging into the only power that can truly change our lives. Jesus doesn’t offer a quick fix—He offers total restoration.
Scripture says:
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)
Not another failed attempt at fixing yourself. Not another temporary escape. Real rest. Real peace. Real breakthrough.
At Three Cord Marriage, we don’t claim to be counselors—we’re not here to diagnose or prescribe. But we are Christian marriage coaches who have walked through the fire and found healing through Jesus Christ. We don’t offer quick fixes—we offer faith-based marriage support rooted in the Word of God, because we know firsthand that real restoration only comes when you build your marriage on a biblical foundation.
We are people who have walked through our own battles—infidelity, addiction, brokenness—and come out the other side by the power of God’s truth. We’ve not only experienced it, but have also led other marriages to be resurrected, families restored, and individuals transformed when they chose to surrender their pain to the only One who could truly heal them.
We believe that no marriage is too far gone. No person is too broken. No past is beyond redemption.
But you can’t do it alone.
If you’re tired of the cycle, if you’re desperate for something real, if you want a biblical marriage that thrives, it starts with shifting where you place your hope.
You don’t have to keep fighting alone. You don’t have to keep guessing. You don’t have to settle for survival when God designed marriage for abundance, joy, peace, and unity.
At Three Cord Marriage, we offer:
✅ Personalized Christian Marriage Coaching – Not therapy, but strategic guidance based on scripture and real-life experience.
✅ Faith-Based Couples Support – Tools to help you and your spouse strengthen your bond.
✅ Christian Marriage Resources – Practical steps, workshops, and retreats to help you grow together.
If you and your spouse feel stuck—if your marriage is hanging by a thread, if you’re drowning in pain, if you’ve lost all hope—we want to invite you to a conversation.
Are you ready for a breakthrough? Schedule a discovery call today. Let’s find the best path forward for you and your marriage. No judgment. No pressure. Just a real conversation about where you are and how we can walk with you toward the breakthrough God has for you.
Because the life and marriage God intended for you is waiting—you just have to choose it.
Don’t settle for the false hope the world offers. Real hope is found in Jesus. Real transformation starts today.
I’m dying to be the perfect husband….sounds like the same cry of anticipation we’ve all made when we’re really excited about doing or achieving something. I’m dying to go on my vacation, I’m dying to go get my new car, I’m dying for my team to make the playoffs…
So many times, we’ve used this expression of excitement and anticipation to describe how we feel about something that we deeply desire to have, achieve, experience…
But as husbands, in order to truly be as close to “perfect” as we can, we need to move beyond the feeling of wanting to be the best and move into the doing of those things the Perfect One told us we need to do to be the best!
So if you’re dying to be the perfect husband, you need to start dying to be the perfect husband!
Let’s take a quick look at the areas we need to start dying.
In case you haven’t noticed lately, the world wants us to believe what is right is wrong, and what is wrong is right!...(By the way, y’all, the Bible tells us this would happen Isaiah 5:20)…
Culture today would have us believe that “I am more important than anyone else,” that marriage is a disposable agreement, and that if I am married to “the one” then they will make my happy…
Nothing could be further from the truth!
The reality in all of this is the world’s take on marriage is exactly opposite of what real marriage is!
In order to become the husband you were created to be, you need to first, empty yourself of the ideas the world holds about marriage and fill yourself with what the creator of marriage has to say about it…God’s word is where you will find that truth…
Easier said than done, right? Well, like anything worth doing (and believe me, this is worth doing) it’ll take hard work and discipline!
If you’re anything like I was, you’ve probably had more of the world shape your views on marriage and relationships, than you’ve had God. Since you were a child, your life experiences, good and bad, have shaped your mindset and behavior toward marriage…divorce, abuse, neglect, are all things we experience that cause us to put up walls and impact how we treat and connect with our wife.
But I’m here to tell you from experience, you can renew your mind by intentionally focusing on God and changing how you let the world impact you.
Hey, I’ve got news buddy, you’re not the most important person in the room…in fact, if you are thinking about yourself throughout the day more than anyone else, you need to snap out of it.
Self-centeredness and selfishness (and at its extreme, narcissism) is one of the most destructive forces in a marriage. I know because I almost let it destroy my marriage!
When we get married, the bible tells us that “two become one flesh” (Gen 2:24). In other words, the me now becomes we.
And since God was kind enough to join us with our helpmate, every decision should be about what is best for you AND your wife, not just you.
We’re also created to be servant leaders, as we see in John 13:12-17 when Christ washed the disciples’ feet. Our role as husbands is to lead our house with the Word, in love.
We can’t lead our wife in love if all we are thinking about is ourselves.
The ultimate act of love is to lay one’s life down for another! Jesus did it for us, and so we too are to be willing to do the same for our wives.
In Ephesians, after we are told to honor one another, husbands are instructed to show their wives the same love that Christ showed us, in that we’d be willing to lay down our lives for our wives to protect and preserve them.
This sounds extreme but starts daily in your heart.
Ask yourself, everyday…
If you answered no to any of these questions, then I encourage you to get to work. Give yourself permission to do a truthful and honest self-examination around points 1 and 2. Then press into God’s Word, asking Him to reveal to you the things you need to change about yourself…then work hard to do it.
Believe me, you’ll be amazed at how the transformation in yourself will transform your wife and your marriage. I know because it is how God saved our marriage.
If you’re dying to be the best husband you can be but are having trouble dying to the world, yourself, or your wife, connect with us at www.threecordmarriage.com/contact and let us show you how we can help.
